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Unhappiness arises when ones needs is not satisfied by his wants. When one cannot come to terms with reality, he begins taking up different defence mechanism to gratify his needs.
Many a times, we are lost in the process of growing up. We will missed a step somewhere somehow, and that step we missed would in some ways deter us from taking the next step out. Therefore, we cannot move on and out of this trap.
What we fail to see is, if we found what is the cause of missing this step and pre-emptive measures are taken not to miss it again, we could have moved on much easily.
Easier said than done. Sometimes we feel that we have moved on, passed a certain stage in life, able to see things in a different light but when something else hits you, it hits you cold and hard, you fall back to where you left off, and start wondering did you even moved on in the 1st place.
The fact is, everyone of us had already moved on. Pushing it all to where it last ended is just the reaction of the brains to maintain in the comfort zone. You would have found that you are able to react and handle this setback better than the last time. You have not fallen back, you have just became stronger.
Growing up is a great test to ones' confidence. With increasing experiences in life, it can built upon greater confident for one to face the harshness of reality, on the contarary, increasing experiences might also shatter dreams and cease hopes, deterring the confidence to move on.
Nevertheless, we should all take any experiences in life as a learning opportunity, even if it shatters our dreams and dampens our hopes, we should still make the best out of everyday.
Find the root cause of your unhappiness for it is this cause that is giving you the displeasure in the other things you commit in. Gratify this cause and you would find this world a better place to live in. :)
Anqi, this entry is made in response to your blog. Probably its just one of the bad days and by the time you read this, you are prob okie already..lolx..anyway..its life...and shit happens all the time..gonna take in in your own stride... smile~
Many a times, we are lost in the process of growing up. We will missed a step somewhere somehow, and that step we missed would in some ways deter us from taking the next step out. Therefore, we cannot move on and out of this trap.
What we fail to see is, if we found what is the cause of missing this step and pre-emptive measures are taken not to miss it again, we could have moved on much easily.
Easier said than done. Sometimes we feel that we have moved on, passed a certain stage in life, able to see things in a different light but when something else hits you, it hits you cold and hard, you fall back to where you left off, and start wondering did you even moved on in the 1st place.
The fact is, everyone of us had already moved on. Pushing it all to where it last ended is just the reaction of the brains to maintain in the comfort zone. You would have found that you are able to react and handle this setback better than the last time. You have not fallen back, you have just became stronger.
Growing up is a great test to ones' confidence. With increasing experiences in life, it can built upon greater confident for one to face the harshness of reality, on the contarary, increasing experiences might also shatter dreams and cease hopes, deterring the confidence to move on.
Nevertheless, we should all take any experiences in life as a learning opportunity, even if it shatters our dreams and dampens our hopes, we should still make the best out of everyday.
Find the root cause of your unhappiness for it is this cause that is giving you the displeasure in the other things you commit in. Gratify this cause and you would find this world a better place to live in. :)
Anqi, this entry is made in response to your blog. Probably its just one of the bad days and by the time you read this, you are prob okie already..lolx..anyway..its life...and shit happens all the time..gonna take in in your own stride... smile~
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