Sunday, May 06, 2007

Concrete operational fool

Disclaimer: Sarcasm and Vulglarities lie ahead, if you can't stand either one, fuck off now. The writer shall not be responsible for any fuckshit you may have incurred from reading the following entry.



It has been quite a while since I last met or got to know unfriendly people in any kind of social setting. Its either they are unfriendly by nature? shy? arrogant? anti-social personality disorder? Who gives a damn...

I think as we grow up, no matter how anti-social you are, no matter how introverted you are, 1 thing that is so important to pick up with age is, interpersonal communication skills. For most of us, I would think that as we step foot into NS and the Uni or the society at large for the girls, we are naturally forced to interact with other people. Be it we like it or not, we have to. I guess that skill is something the schools doesnt teach, its comes through social experiences, and even Darwin's theory of natural selection is true, interpersonal communications and interaction skills might be just one of the skills evolved through mankind that is required for survival. If you didnt come equipped with that skill..hmmm...Maybe your ancestors were APES? That you adopted a different set of genes?

Reality is cruel, no one out there is gonna ask if you are shy, anti-social or wadsoever fuck. You cant keep up with the speed the earth is rotating, you will naturally fall down just like when you are on a treadmill but on a treadmill, you choose the speed, in reality, you follow. Go too slow, you will fall to your own death, go too fast and you will be outcast.

Emotion Intelligence..Does it really exist? I bet it does though it cant be empirically proven as yet. Some people are just a little more sensitive to their surrounding people and things, some people are just dense as blocks, while some just couldnt be bothered. I believe it is a innate human ablity but some people just lacks it, maybe its a gene deficiency or chromosome abnomoralities, who knows?

Piaget in his theory of cognitive development proposed that children will be less egocentric past the age of 7, in the concrete operational stage. Well well...I do know and see and had met some adults or even adolescene whom are totally egocentric. I bet some of you have too. Hmmm..Maybe like what Sharon told me the other time, instead of saying someone is stupid, say they are concrete operational. Hmmm..I thought ya..it sounds less crude, and more sophisicated, it probably reflect on you better, higher EQ so to speak on interpersonal relations? maybe....and the person you are using this term on, probably has got totally no idea what is concrete operational. So true both ways....

The purpose of this entry is dedicated to something (well i do know how to classify between animate and inanimate, just decided to classify that thing I met as inanimate) I met last night, but had not known, and will not be knowing. Its time to grow up and learn how to interact, the world dun owe you a living so dun show the fuck face to the world when you are facing it.

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